Apr. 15th, 2008
On complaining less
Apr. 15th, 2008 08:26 amFor no apparent reason, I started paying attention to whether complaining made me feel better, and I found that for a lot of things, talking about them four or five times made me feel better, but after that, it was just habit, so I'd stop after four or five times (hopefully to different people).
At this point, there are annoying things that happen to me that I don't talk about at all because they don't seem to be worth mentioning.
At this point, there are annoying things that happen to me that I don't talk about at all because they don't seem to be worth mentioning.
On complaining less
Apr. 15th, 2008 08:26 amFor no apparent reason, I started paying attention to whether complaining made me feel better, and I found that for a lot of things, talking about them four or five times made me feel better, but after that, it was just habit, so I'd stop after four or five times (hopefully to different people).
At this point, there are annoying things that happen to me that I don't talk about at all because they don't seem to be worth mentioning.
At this point, there are annoying things that happen to me that I don't talk about at all because they don't seem to be worth mentioning.
Moderately true
Apr. 15th, 2008 09:33 amYou can't wrap a hug in words and send it through email. But you can send a fist. And that's the problem with asymmetry on the Intarwebz. From theferrett.
I do think positive emotions can be conveyed in text, but it takes work. Being nasty to people in text can be done reflexively.
Link thanks to
shadesong.
I do think positive emotions can be conveyed in text, but it takes work. Being nasty to people in text can be done reflexively.
Link thanks to
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Moderately true
Apr. 15th, 2008 09:33 amYou can't wrap a hug in words and send it through email. But you can send a fist. And that's the problem with asymmetry on the Intarwebz. From theferrett.
I do think positive emotions can be conveyed in text, but it takes work. Being nasty to people in text can be done reflexively.
Link thanks to
shadesong.
I do think positive emotions can be conveyed in text, but it takes work. Being nasty to people in text can be done reflexively.
Link thanks to
![[livejournal.com profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/external/lj-userinfo.gif)